Fear of Not Being Good Enough Holding You Back?

live an extraordinary life Jul 15, 2022

Do you get caught in the trap of perfectionism, of not putting things out until you are 100% sure they are ready, of delaying sharing your gifts because of this reason and that reason?

So many of us do this.. it is natural.. and...

It is done out of fear.

Fear of what other people will think. Fear of the shame we will experience when others realise we aren't perfect.. or as wonderful as we'd like to show them we are.

Well.. to be frank.. none of us are perfect!

We all have chips and scars and wounds and stuff to work through.. thank Goddess!

Because that makes the journey of life exciting!
 

So, when we create or share ourselves, let it be out of that intention for growth and connection within us, rather than to prove our worthiness to others.
 
Let it be to honour ourselves, rather than to seek validation from the outside.
 

Let it be out of a pure, authentic sharing of who you are.. for this is key to experiencing nourishing intimacy and fulfilling relationships.


Let's hold ourselves in love and compassion so that critical or judgemental thoughts of others simply bounce off us.

Let's hold our own shame in love and compassion so that it doesn't matter what others think and we are free to share ourselves without fear.

 

This is your invitation to do the inner work of holding yourself through the fear, contraction and shame..

And then.. making a choice.

 

Do you choose to show up with your voice of authenticity or your voice of perfection?

For, yeh, we always have a choice.

And we can re-write old scripts and discover ourselves anew every day.

 

 

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